"My mother is bored to death sitting around the house all day."
"I can't leave my wife alone, but I have to have some time for myself."
"My husband won't agree to having a stranger come stay with him while I'm out. He says he doesn't need a 'sitter,' but what else can I do?"
These are common questions from caregivers of people with memory loss. Dementia robs its victims of more than just memory - it also hinders their ability to engage in activities they once enjoyed, or even to get started with familiar tasks, so that they frequently end up doing nothing at all. Now their days loom before them, empty and boring, and they become frustrated, angry, or withdrawn. Their caregivers, too, are frustrated and at a loss to know how to help.
An adult daycare program may be the answer. These centers provide a safe, stimulating environment that caters to persons with memory loss, giving them companionship, entertainment, and a sense of purpose. For their caregivers, the respite it affords them is invaluable.
Most adult programs include a variety of supervised activities, including crafts, gardening, music and dance, exercise and games, daily or weekly outings, and visits by children and animals. Many offer bathing and haircare services. A nutritious lunch is provided, and most centers are happy to work with special dietary needs. Transportation to and from the center is often available. Rates for full- and half-days vary, and are based on the level of care required. Financial assistance is available to those who qualify; many long-term care insurance policies will cover all or most of the cost.
When choosing a daycare center, be sure to select one that is licensed through the State of North Carolina. Below is a list of adult daycare centers in the Asheville-Hendersonville area. You can find a complete listing online at www.agingcare.com/Find-Senior-Care/Adult-Day-Care/North-Carolina-NC/Asheville/
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